Let’s Redefine Aging

Getting older brings new opportunities for growth, contribution and self-expression. Let’s change the way we view getting older.

We are all aging.

Avoid Ageism and Ageist Remarks

Ageism happens when people are judged or treated unfairly just because of their age. Negative stereotypes about growing older can hurt in many ways — affecting health, careers, friendships, confidence and even mental well-being. Sometimes, without realizing it, we even direct these attitudes toward ourselves.

Instead of saying, "You look great for your age." Say, "You look great!"

WHY IT’S HARMFUL: Can feel patronizing, suggests that the person only looks good within the context of their age.

RESPECTFUL ALTERNATIVES: “You look great!” or “I love your style!”

Instead of saying, "You're too old for that." Say, "Let's explore options that suit your goals."

WHY IT’S HARMFUL: Dismisses ability and autonomy.

RESPECTFUL ALTERNATIVES: “Let’s explore safe options that suit your goals.”

Instead of saying, "They're still so sharp for their age." Say, "They are very insightful and thoughtful."

WHY IT’S HARMFUL: Implies cognitive decline is expected.

RESPECTFUL ALTERNATIVES: “They are very insightful and thoughtful”

Instead of using "Elderly" as a noun. Say, "Older adult"

WHY IT’S HARMFUL: Reduces person to an age category.

RESPECTFUL ALTERNATIVES: “Older adult” or “person aged _____”

Instead of saying, "Young at heart." Say, "Active" or "Engaged"

WHY IT’S HARMFUL: Suggest age defines capabilities.

RESPECTFUL ALTERNATIVES: “Active” or “engaged”

Tool Kits

Ageism Awareness Media and Medical Professional Resources

Media Toolkit (PDF)

Medical Professional Toolkit (PDF)

Resources

Helpful Websites

Media Resources

Medical Professional Resources

World Health Organization – Global Campaign to Combat Ageism
American Geriatrics Society – Age-Friendly Health Systems
National Institute on Aging – Health Professionals Resources
John A. Hartford Foundation – Age-Friendly Care Framework
Gerontological Society of America – Revised Style Guides Advance Age Inclusive Language
Antidotes for Ageism – Changing the Narrative
Ageism Directed to Older Adults in Health Services: A Scoping Review

Appropriate Language

Training/Education